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The daily harbor

Posted by Mike Willis on Wednesday, February 15, 2012.
I read a great facebook status from a friend this morning:

"The harbor of QT [Quiet Time] is past. Now, to practice His presence.
"For the LORD your God is with you wherever you go." Joshua 1:9



What a great illustration. Daily quiet time with the Lord is a harbor. As a ship comes in for the night with tattered sails, loosened rigging, and dirtied by the sea, so the harbor offers safe-haven, repair, re-tightening of the rigging and another look at navigation.

The simple process of arising early and communing with the Lord before the day swells is a harbor God has provided and we must choose to dock daily so we may proceed to practice God's presence.

I rise before dawn and cry for help; I hope in your words. My eyes awake before the the watches of the night, that I may meditate on your promise. Psalm 119:147-148

Thank you for this great illustration, Sharon Kostal!

Rhythms vs. Balance

Posted by Mike Willis on Friday, February 10, 2012.
One of the most popular words that I have heard regarding making life 'work' is BALANCE. Makes sense. The problem? Life changes too much, the scales tip, then I have to redefine what balance means almost on a daily basis.

During The Elephant Room, I heard the term RHYTHMS. I like this better than balance. Life comes like tides do, but not as predictably. Therefore, we must grow our capacity to flex and stay wise regarding how much is too much as well as how little is too little. Vanessa and I have learned to communicate well regarding rhythms. Some seasons of life and ministry are just far busier or far simpler than others. For instance: December, Easter season, and September/October (fall kick-off) are always insanely busy seasons. Some weeks will include another week night meeting or a weekend meeting (or two or three). We communicate about them beforehand. We make sure to block out family time and make it really count when we are together.

Several Thursdays mornings ago, the Lord really opened my eyes about several things in Mark 6. One was rhythms. Just check out this order of events: Jesus is rejected by those He grew up with in Nazareth, He sends the disciples on their first mini-mission, one of His best friends (John the Baptist) is beheaded because he spoke the truth, the disciples come back and Jesus tries to get them rest, but 5000 people are ready to be taught and Jesus feeds them in several ways, Jesus retreats to a hillside but notices the disciples struggling on the water in a storm so He walks to them to rescue them and teach them about faith, then Jesus heals sick people that everyone hurried to bring to Him.

The tide was in. Little sleep nor extended time in prayer, extensive and diverse types of ministry, utter heartache then joyful teaching, all while physical and spiritual needs were multiplying in front of Him.

Rhythms is an important reality that can help circumvent burn-out. If you recognize something is a rhythm of busyness, you remain determined to stay on top of it and not get crushed. Otherwise, a rhythm looks like a mainstay. Then complaining starts, excellence wanes, bitterness brews and the exit door looks lavish. Expect rhythms. Learn to communicate about them with the ones you love so they aren't blindsided. Expect rhythms. Communicate well. Work hard. Play hard.

Oprah, Steven Tyler, and monogamy

Posted by Mike Willis on Thursday, February 09, 2012.

As much as possible, I try to listen when big voices speak with one another. To consider what they are saying and how that jives with what the Lord says. One recent such event was watching Oprah’s interview of Steven Tyler. (We have her interview with Joel Osteen on DVR, but haven’t watched it yet). Steven Tyler, as well documented and affirmed by Steven himself, was a drug-abusing womanizer who had zero regard for the impact these acts would have on others. Oprah asked some bold questions and, in typical Steven Tyler transparency, he gave heartfelt answers.

While sitting by his wife, Oprah asks two tough questions:
Oprah: “Is it possible to remain monogamous and be a rock star?”
Steven’s immediate answer: “Yes.”
Oprah: “Is it possible for you to remain monogamous?”
After a slight pause, Steven said: “Yes. It is. You know what’s going on right now is that I don’t want to hurt anybody again. ”

Stunning! Hopeful! Exciting!

We say, “Way to go, Steven!”

Our culture over-values the journey and under-values discretion. We think the journey teaches discretion, when really discretion’s purpose is to prevent certain journeys.

Steven knows this now and is trying to hold the line.

Much of Proverbs 1-7 is about discretion … knowing, per wisdom, what is the right way versus the wrong then choosing the right. But Proverbs is not merely about rules, as is the popular fallacy about the Bible in general. Proverbs amplifies over-and-over that “the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.” Fearing God means bowing-down to Him, His ways, trusting them as best and Sovereign over-and-above the wave of today. Solomon goes into great detail about why discretion is so important: because feelings will well-up and you’ll convince yourself to go for it when you shouldn’t. I think of the famous Monica line in Friends, “Do what your heart is telling you.” Not a good plan. My heart tells me to do some wicked things. Discretion and the Holy Spirit combat them.

“My son, do not lose sight of these – keep sound wisdom and discretion.” Proverbs 5:1-2

Steven Tyler demonstrated something: feelings can’t hold a monopoly in your life. Discretion must inform them toward their proper target.

Super Bowl Party Etiquette

Posted by Mike Willis on Friday, February 03, 2012.
For those of you hosting on Sunday evening...
Personally, I can't do much about being the dad with young kids part.

Party Matters: The Big Game from North Point Media on Vimeo.


Is the Bible reliable?

Posted by Mike Willis on Wednesday, February 01, 2012.
Tonight, at UNC at 7, there is a "dialogue" between UNC religious studies professor Dr. Bart Ehrman and Dallas Theological Seminary professor Dr. Dan Wallace. The topic? "Is the Original New Testament Lost?" which means, "Can we be sure we have the original Bible?" and really means, "Is the Bible reliable so it's literally the truth that sets me free?"

You know my answer. YES! On a scientific level, there is no "book" on the planet that has more original copies. 20/1, the Bible wins. To say that the Bible isn't reliable is to say that NO book is reliable. So what's authoritative then? Our era's answer?: us. Yikes. More Bible scrolls/manuscripts are uncovered every year and Dr. Wallace is one of the first men called to go take a look. On a spiritual level, billions of lives have been eternally changed because of God's Word (the Bible) so we may know Him and His plan to restore us through Jesus by our faith in Him. The only way a document can be so preserved over thousands of years is that people for that long have found it to be the most important, spiritual, true Word ... so much so that they were willing to die to preserve it. Of course, God is the ultimate preserver of His Word, so we could have it in 2012, too. What a blessing. We should not neglect absorbing and applying God's Word. In fact, the Bible is laden with men who "meditated on it day and night", called it "honey on their lips", a "sharp two-edged sword piercing to the soul".

I just watched again this hilarious interview with Dr. Bart Ehrman by Stephen Colbert. It exposes the ridiculousness of his claims in comical form, but the reality is that people are devouring his books, he's teaching hundreds at UNC every semester. This appetite is not singular to Dr. Ehrman. While interviewing Joel Osteen, Piers Morgan characterized those who believe everything the Bible says as "dragging the Bible to the modern age kicking and screaming." It's not like God looks down on us "brilliant" humans and says, "Whoops, I got it wrong, you are right, forgive Me, I should have written that differently."

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I'm not angry at Dr. Ehrman or Piers Morgan. They ask good questions that anyone would ask. But God has answers. My heart and mind ache for them to believe. This is what Dr. Wallace will emphasize tonight. We all have to make a choice about what's authoritative. You have one perfect option.

So what can Christians do in response? Be a student of God's Word who believes and applies. Don't make assumptions about something you haven't read since your pre-teen confirmation. Let God speak to you through His Word, don't interpret it, accept what it says like every other generation before us.

Last night, I read various verses in Romans to some friends and they understood how clear God's Word is about how to be saved and they were saved last night. They placed their faith in Jesus, as His Father wills, and repented from their assumptions: "I was believing in smoke and mirrors" and "I had the vocabulary about Christianity, but not Jesus Himself". It was a beautiful moment. The truth will set you free.